Valentine’s Day from a Christian Perspective: Love Beyond Romance
Valentine’s Day, celebrated on February 14, is often associated with romance, gifts, and emotional expression. From a Christian perspective, however, love cannot be reduced to sentiment, attraction, or commercial celebration. Christianity does not reject Valentine’s Day outright, but it does challenge believers to understand love more deeply, truthfully, and sacrificially, grounded in Scripture and the example of Jesus Christ. At the heart of the Christian understanding of love is not romance but self-giving. Scripture defines love not by how it feels, but by what it does. “God is love” does not mean God is emotion, but that God gives Himself fully for the good of others (1 John 4:8–10). The clearest expression of love in Christianity is the cross, where Christ laid down His life freely, not because it was pleasant, but because it was faithful (John 15:13). Any Christian reflection on Valentine’s Day must begin here. Romantic love and marriage are affirmed in Scripture and honored with...